When Influencing and Persuading can be swapped for just Backing Yourself!
So part of the secret to gaining Time/Money Freedom is about Relationships
- Because we tend to feel that we need those important people in our lives to CARE about what we are doing and to “buy in” to our ideas, and because sometimes it’s a team game.
- Sometimes we want them to feel as though there is an advantage for them in supporting us.
- And so we can get so caught up with expressing our own enthusiasm and trying to win their support, that we end up sounding “whiney” and “needy”.
I do myself it all the time!
In last week’s video, I was talking about employing the 80/20 rule in your life, about really being a great leader and team player within your relationship and that was all about influencing and persuading your partner to be on your side!
What happens when we lose our connection and feel like we’re not being heard?
Sometimes you might find you’ve gone just a little bit over that threshold where you stopped coming from a powerful place and you’ve started to sound a little bit like you’re just whining… maybe because you’re feeling as though you’re not getting the response back or the enthusiasm or the energy back that you might be expecting from the loved ones around you.
How to stop trying to win the support of others?
While I do appreciate the value in persuading people to be on our side and to creating a great support network, today I wanted to share a quick message about another way to look at this whole thing…
Note: If you have a partner who doesn’t seem excited about your ideas, you’re going to love this one!
So the 2 Things to remember are:
1. Your loved one may process and express information differently than you do.
2. This is the time to take back your self confidence and back yourself!
Have you felt like you were failing at trying to win over the support of your loved ones? What did you do to move past that? Leave a comment so that others can be impacted by your story!
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